Love – desiring a capacity for closeness
Your capacity for closeness can be a slippery slope You cannot always avoid conflict, and once in it, Ken Sande’s, The Peacemaker, offers...
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Jesus, the good shepherd.
“So Jesus again said to them, “Truly, truly, I say to you, I am the door of the sheep. All who came before me are thieves and robbers,...
Come to him.
“Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle and...
Watch and pray.
“Watch and pray that you may not enter into temptation. The spirit indeed is willing, but the flesh is weak.” ~ Matthew 26:41 “No...
Ask. Seek. Knock.
“Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives, and the...
Break free
This list simply categorizes the ways we go wrong with people (fake, fight, forward, flight) but doesn’t delve deep into how we go wrong...
People-avoider
The last on the list of how you go wrong relationally is people-avoider. In secular object relations theory parlance, it is called...
People-addict
The third on the list on how we can go wrong relationally, is people-addict. In secular object relations theory vernacular, this is...
People-annoyer
The next way we can go wrong is people-annoyer. The secular object relations theory label for this is called social incompetence. I know,...
People-pleaser
The first way that you can go wrong on this list, is people-pleaser. In secular object relations theory lingo, this points to...
Hate to focus on what’s wrong, but…
I hate to focus on what’s wrong, but sometimes it does us good to see how, where, and why we go wrong in order to work toward breaking...
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